Yesterday John and I celebrated 3 years of marriage. I'll never forget that special day. I thought that it couldn't get any better than that day. I was so wrong. 3 years, one darling baby girl, a little boy on the way, and a lot of late musical nights later it is so much better than I could have dreamed.
We have a happy marriage and I think that one of the biggest things that keeps it that way is not holding on to the little things. It's easy to get offended quickly and want to teach the other person a lesson by giving them the silent treatment or being rude in return. But that is one of the things that I can say we do well. We are quick to forgive and don't hold little grudges or try and punish the other person. We rarely stay upset for more than a few minutes because he will have me laughing or I'll make him hug me or kiss me before it gets too awkward. We know that we will eventually forgive each other or work it out so why not take those steps sooner rather than later. I am grateful for that.
I love collecting the years with him. I am proud of our three little years. I love looking back on the things we've done and being proud of what we have created together. I think more than anything we have a really great friendship.
I love you John Murphy, thanks for being a really cool husband and always bringing home the perfect treats. Thanks for keeping our house a fun place and being a great dad to Evaleigh. Thanks for loving me when I'm crazy.