Yesterday I stumbled across some very disturbing images through what I thought was going to be an innocent hashtag on Instagram. I have been quite disturbed since then and have not been able to get them out of my mind. I have been wondering how some people get to such a point of self loathing or how their life situation has caused them to have no self esteem. This makes me feel sad. I wish I could show people that they have incredible worth.
I know every single person has a different life situation and I couldn't even begin to imagine some of them. The world is such a dangerous place but it can also a beautiful place if you look for the positive.
I think it is so important to start with loving yourself.
I think its important to be able to take a look at your self and say, "Yeah, I'd be friends with that person, I like her." I can truly say that I love myself, and I don't mean this in a conceited or egotistical way. I enjoy who I am. I think its important to respect yourself where you are in your life at the current time. Life is always going to be changing and you will be transitioning from one stage of life to another. Always. It is important to love yourself through those changes and to be kind to yourself.
Sometimes I look at my sweet baby and pray as hard as I can that I will show her how much we love her and she will know how precious she is. I couldn't imagine a day where she would feel alone or hate for herself. It is SO important that we spend our days with our children loving them and helping them to acquire solid foundations of true self esteem. Not just that they are beautiful or smart or funny, but that they are worthy of life and worthy of love and that they deserve, yes DESERVE, to have the best life has to offer. Because they are children of God.